Am i gay if i like women with dicks

NormalPerson over a year ago. VirginBookWorm over a year ago. MacShreach over a year ago. This is a very complex and under-researched area. You are definitely not gay in any binary sense, because you are not attracted to men. You are attracted to 'traps' by which I take it you mean young beautiful transsexual girls.

Well, it's not hard to be attracted to these girls, most men are, they just lie about it. The fact that you are concentrating on this area of porn, and you find vaginas don't turn you on is interesting, but porn is fantasy. However in taking this desire into the real world you change everything, and so you need to understand a few things.

She's a woman. She has feelings and you have to treat her with respect. She is MUCH more fragile than cis-women women born with a vagina. Please be nice. Remember that while you might want to work out a fun fantasy, she may be seeking something much deeper, the reaffirmation of her womanhood.

You are definitely transattracted. This is becoming increasingly more evident as a genuine, and common, expression of sexuality. No serious science has been done on it. However in many countries now, transsexual and transgender women are regarded as legally legitimate, and their condition is viewed as physical, not mental.

The USA is behind the curve here. Clearly it would be bizarre to accept transwomen and then suggest no-one should be attracted to them. For every expression of gender, there are people who are attracted, and this is no different. Classically 'straight' transattracted men just see transwomen as women and their specific interest is similar to caucasians being attracted to asiatics; there is an element of the unknown and the exotic, even the forbidden, which is sexually attractive.

This may sound like a 'fetish' but in fact fetishism is an obsessive attachment to particular objects, body parts or sexual practices. Nobody thinks preferring blondes is a fetish, and it is only a tendency to pathologise human sexuality that has extended the meaning of the word to the absurd levels sometimes seen today.

In other words, being transsexual is normal, and being transattracted is normal too. You may be able to live with transattraction and just use porn for relief. Be aware that if your transattraction is strong and you go with a transgirl, you may find that your porn experience is repeated, and you lose interest in ciswomen.

If so there is no point in struggling with this. You are what you are, enjoy it responsibly.

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However, becoming involved with a transwoman has consequences--they can't have children, for one. It is possible that you will lose friends and your family may reject her, and you. You need to consider your life plan. Guest over a year ago.