Can i have a gay friend as bridesmaid

So, my friend is in our wedding party because he has been one of "my girls" for as long as I can remember. It was never a question to ask him to be in the wedding or to invite him to the bachelorette party or shower even.

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Is it weird to put his name on the invite as a host, though? Will people be confused? So his name and my sisters?? Second, question with where he stands in the church. But do you guys think it will look lopsided or weird in the pics? The girls will all be in long black dresses and he will be in a black tux matching the rest of the groomsmen.

If he does stand with us girls, what do I call him exactly in the program? Is he an usher, groomsman, or a bridesman? Tagged: advicebridesmaidsbridesmanwedding party. These days, you can truly do whatever you want! The main thing is that both he and your groom are comfortable with his title and responsibilities.

Some of the issues you mentioned kinda sound similar to the issues around having a Best Woman or a Man of Honor:. You can refer to him as an attendant in the program. He obviously means a lot to you so it would be nice to find a token to honor that. If you personalize something small keychain, money clip then it would still be meaningful no matter what.

Who cares what they think? If people get confused, you can simply explain it to them. My GBF stood on my side in photos, during the ceremony, and was listed as a "Bridesman" in my program. Also, we dressed him identically to the groomsmen. If it was me, I would have my Bridesman standing on my side in his tux next to the girls in their long black dresses.

I think that would look fantastic! Then again, my uncle remarried when his daughter was 14 or so and she stood up as his best man in a tux and it was wonderful. FI wants to add that he stood up for one of his good friends when she got married. My best friend is a guy and so I ended up making him my man of honor.

With your other BMs and the shower, are they contributing even though they cannot be there? With regard to the ceremony, if you want him on your side, fantastic! Especially because they all are in black, it should blend nicely. As for shower invites — they should be worded however the hosts decide to word them!

I was in a wedding where the bride had a "Man of Honor", who was her best guy friend.